EXAMINE THIS PICTURE
What do you see? What did you see at first glance? Did you see a black cup, or did you see the 2 white facial profiles? Take a moment to study the picture, switch views back and forth between the two images.
Here you will notice two things: The first one being, that it is impossible to focus on both at once. You focus your consciousness on EITHER the cup OR the faces, however it is impossible to see BOTH.
The second thing you will notice is: one cannot exist without the other. The cup cannot exist without the faces and vise versa. They must BOTH exist at the same time, therefor giving you the choice to FOCUS on the one you want, while ACCEPTING that the other co-exists. They cannot exist without the other.
Here you can apply the dark to the negative aspects of your Twin Flame journey and the light to the positive aspects. It is YOUR CHOICE which aspect you choose to focus your consciousness on, both Union and non-Union exist simultaneously, so where do you want to place your focus and attention? As stated, you can NOT place your focus on one aspect, and then expect to experience the opposite. Where you place your conscious attention, is the aspect that you will experience. BOTH aspects will exist, the contrast will ALWAYS be there, HOWEVER; the ONLY reason the contrast exists is because ONE CAN NOT EXIST WITHOUT THE OTHER. The loving, blissful relationship that you wish to experience CAN NOT exist without the contrasted opposite. That is why you have chosen to experience life on Earth, to have a CHOICE in what you wish to experience. If both aspects did not exist, you would be dating everybody, eating everything, living everywhere, you would be poor and rich at the same time, life would make NO SENSE.
CHOOSE WHICH ASPECT OF YOUR TWIN FLAME TO FOCUS ON IN ORDER TO EXPERIENCE THAT ASPECT OF THEM.
If you focus on the aspect that your Twin puts you second, doesn’t want anything to do with you, is closed off and ignores you, THEN WELCOME TO THE DARK, you have made your conscious decision in what you wish to experience.
IF YOU FOCUS ON THE LOVING, POSITIVE, BLISSFUL EXPERIENCES WITH YOUR TWIN, you will experience that instead.
IT IS ALWAYS YOUR CHOICE AND NO ONE, NOT EVEN YOUR TWIN IS WITHHOLDING THIS RELATIONSHIP FROM YOU, it is YOU.